Ah, Mab, I'm glad you've found what feels good and way more comfortable for yourself.

Shall we (here on LJ) just start using the right pronouns? We're their friend and should manage, right? I try to use they/them/their already whenever I post something on tumblr about people whose gender idk. It's only polite, isn't it? To not assume things based on a name or the final syllable of a word.

Wow, look at this transformation. Love their happy smile in the pics from 2016, especially the cosplay ones. :D
*all the hugs my friend*
<333