You know, I don't have kids or a whole lot of experience with kids, so I generally hesitate to talk about other people's parenting, but that Gwen knows herself well enough to know she wants help and feels safe enough sharing that with you and asking for help? That sounds like you must be doing some things pretty damn right, hard as it might be.

And you already know I feel this way, but YAY TURN!!! And yay you for taking on this huge, amazing project!